Showing posts with label intimate couples. Show all posts
Showing posts with label intimate couples. Show all posts

How Addiction and Codependency Distort Relationships

Anyone who has lived with addiction of any kind knows that addictive behavior affects everyone around them in unhealthy ways. In some relationships, addiction creates a counter-condition called "codependency." A codependent makes unhealthy behavior changes to accommodate the addict. Codependency and addiction are equal and opposite in unhealthiness. They reflect imbalance and distortion in these areas. How Addiction and Codependency Distort Relationships

Relationship Reflections from 25 Years of (Pretty Much) Wedded Bliss

My husband and I are celebrating 25 years of (mostly) wedded bliss today. On July 18, 1987, I was going on 24 and he was going on 25. We were ignorant, idealistic and ridiculously romantic. A quarter of a century, we still are and I think that might be what's kept us together.

We've each only been married once, to each other, which makes us (some have told me) a rare breed. (I might say "more like a piece of work!"). We've been asked (I blush every time) for the secret of our success. I always quip "we fight all the time!" That's only partly jest. With four kids, money struggles, crazy schedules, work-a-holic tendencies, job woes, health setbacks, two lost babies, a old crumbling house, old cars (which we share) and a DIY-of-necessity lifestyle, I guess it's to be expected. And relationships get gritty in and of themselves without any help from outside stresses.Relationship Reflections from 25 Years of (Pretty Much) Wedded Bliss

How to argue, fight (safe and healthy) with your partner, spouse

There's a misnomer in parenting intelligentsia that mom and dad should never argue around the kids. This myth is not only unrealistic and unfair, it's unhealthy. Disagreements are normal. Kids need to see their parents squabble to learn communication and interaction skills. Obviously, there are cleaner ways to fight, but even messy battles provide learning opportunities. Here are some healthy "fight club" rules for parents.  Healthy 'fight club' rules for parents 

Why the Flap Over a Gay Marine's Homecoming Embrace Photo?

When gay marine Brandon Morgan posted a photo of him and his boyfriend Dalan Wells in a passionate kiss after Morgan's homecoming, I'm not sure what he expected. The hate comments probably weren't surprising nor was the fact it went viral, as The Lookout says. I'm not surprised; it was an intense kiss. That in itself engenders a lot of gawkers. Was it going overboard? Read more at Why the Flap Over a Gay Marine's Homecoming Embrace Photo?

Sexy, Sensual, Intimate, Romantic, Valentine's Dayay Gifts for Your Special Lady

Well, you did it again. February 14th is right around the corner and you haven't gotten your special gal anything. Don't panic; your friendly neighborhood cupid is here with some fabulous ideas that you can get last minute. Want to impress the socks off your lady and gain you some great brownie points with her? I promise that if you present her with one of these offerings, she will think that you are the most sensitive, savvy and sophisticated guy in the world. To shop for these gifts, you will need to visit a local antique store, consignment shop, secondhand store. You might even hit pay dirt with a Good Will. Here is what you are looking for. Read more at Last-Minute Valentine's Day Gifts Guaranteed to Impress

Nick Jonas, Miley Cyrus--Sex, Scandal and Growing Up too Fast

Nick Jonas, Miley Cyrus--What Happened to Those Disney Kids? Nick Jonas and Miley Cyrus: what do they have in common? Former Disney stars, formerly in a relationship, now making headlines with their love interests. Jonas takes his girlfriend to Mexico. Miley admits to experimenting with sex. These kids are minors and mostly living living at home. Does being a celebrity make you immune to rules of growing up? Does it nullify parent rules? Does working in Hollywood mean make you mature faster? Are some of these relationships too much, too fast? Read more...

Best Romantic Valentine's Day Gifts for Girlfriends, Wives and Lovers

Men often put off shopping for Valentine's Day gifts for their sweethearts. At the last minute, they grab chocolates and flowers. Boring. Here are Valentine gift suggestions for her that will delight. There are two
 important rules of thumb to remember when shopping for women. First, we can spot a 'quick grab' gift with no thought involved a mile away. Click here...

Free Printable Romantic, Erotic, Intimate and Sensual Valentine's Day Cards and Ecards

Valentine's Day cards are not just for children. We can all enjoy the fun of sending and receiving little greetings and notes or cheer during this cold, dark season of winter. And for lovers, there's no better time to send a passionate, romantic or even sensual valentine or ecard.  Here are websites with free printable intimate Valentine's Day cards and ecards. Read more...

Anger Management Through Writing

Anger Management and Rage Therapy Through Writing
We all feel angry from time to time. For some people, anger is chronic. For others, it's situational. I have found that writing provides therapy, release, detachment, a coping mechanism and has helped my manage anger issues.
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Intimacy in Writing: Write from your heart and soul...

Article Writing Tips: Write from Your Passions and Bond with Your Readers
Writing is a form of intimacy. Psychologists and therapists find journaling particularly helpful for couples in counseling. Use your writing as a way to build intimacy in your relationships.
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Nipple Piercing Dangers for Men and Women

Nipple Piercing Dangers for Men and Women
Nipple piercing. Just thought of it hurts. Setting religious convictions aside, the fact remains that piercing delicate tissue that was designed to nurse babies, is fraught with health concerns. Please read before having your nipple pierced.
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Sexy, Intimate,Sensual, Romantic and Erotic Gifts for Lovers: From Warm and Cuddly to Steaming Hot!


Sexy, Intimate, Romantic Valentine's Day Gifts for Lovers
Whether you are in a new relationship or you've been married for 30 years, it is important to keep the spark of romance alive. Here is a list of sexy, romantic, intimate Valentine's Day gifts that will keep the passion burning.
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