How to argue, fight (safe and healthy) with your partner, spouse

There's a misnomer in parenting intelligentsia that mom and dad should never argue around the kids. This myth is not only unrealistic and unfair, it's unhealthy. Disagreements are normal. Kids need to see their parents squabble to learn communication and interaction skills. Obviously, there are cleaner ways to fight, but even messy battles provide learning opportunities. Here are some healthy "fight club" rules for parents.  Healthy 'fight club' rules for parents 

What to Do if Your Partner is Cheating on You? Infidelity and Unfaithfulness

What to Do If Your Spouse is Cheating on You
Cheating and infidelity in relationships are unpleasant subjects. Infidelity is terminal cancer to a relationship. What should you do if you find out that your spouse is cheating? What steps can you take to care for yourself? Should you get a divorce?
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Is Your Partner Cheating on You? How to know if he's unfaithful

How to Tell If Your Partner is Cheating on You
Is your spouse cheating? Before we look at the warning signs, let me clarify that even if your partner is exhibiting one (or all) of these symptoms, he may not be cheating on you. These warning signs can indicate other problems as well.
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'Fear of Success' as Coping Skill for Low Self-Esteem

Fear of Success as Low Self-Esteem Defense Mechanism
'Fear of Success' is a psychological term that describes panic attack and depression symptoms associated with experiences of success. For people with chronic low self esteem, experiences of success are foreign. 'Fear of success' is a coping mechanism.
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Sexy Adult Halloween Costumes

Fun Sexy Adult Couple Halloween Costumes
The old bumper sticker used to read: Why be normal? I think you'll agree that these adult couple Halloween costume ideas of mine are anything but "normal." They are fun, sexy and might even lead to romance!
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Dating, Marriage and Relationships: Give and Take

Dating, Marriage and Relationships: Give and Take vs. Givers and Takers
You've heard that marriage is 50-50. Actually, marriage is more like 110-110. Both partners in a relationship have to give much more than 'mediocre' to achieve a reasonably healthy relationship. Marriage works with give and take, not givers and takers.
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Getting a Tattoo? Read this first

What to Consider Before Getting a Tattoo
Tattoos and body art are becoming more popular as time goes by. And tattoos have progressed from small images to large works of art that cover significant portions of the body. Before you get a tattoo, consider these things.
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Emotional Health Help: When to Fight Back

Emotional Health Help: When Not to Bite Your Tongue and How to Fight Back Without Getting Toxic
I've always said, 'write when you are passionate about an issue, even and especially if the passion is anger.' Sometimes in anger, it's best to 'bite your tongue'; sometimes a good, non-toxic tongue-lashing is necessary.
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Is She Refusing or Avoiding Sex, Guys? Consider These Simple Solutions

'She's Not Interested in Sex Anymore'; Why Your Partner May Be Turned Off
Has your otherwise normal, healthy partner been refusing to have sex? Does she seem turned off by you? You've ruled out physical and emotional issues. Is there anything you can do to rekindle the flame of passion? Consider these things.
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Dating, Relationships, Communication: When to Bite Your Tongue

Communication, Dating and Relationships: Knowing when to Bite Your Tongue
Dating is like laying out in the sun. The warmth is nice if you can avoid getting burned. This series helps to identify potential communication problems and improve relationships. Today's topic: knowing when to bite your tongue.
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Dating, Relationships, Communication: When to Give and Advice and When to Just Listen

Communication, Dating and Relationship Issues: When to Give Advice and when Not to Give Advice
Dating is like roller-blading; a smooth road is nice, but a few obstacles along the way help you learn how to navigate. Today's communication, dating and relationship advice; listen well, speak occasionally and give advice frugally.
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Communication, Dating, Relationship Advice: Nix 'You Statements',+ 'I Statements'

Communication, Dating and Relationship Issues: Beware of 'You Statements'- Use 'I Statements'
Nine years ago, my husband and I made a Marriage Encounter weekend. I realized two things: there are healthy ways to argue. And I don't know very many of them. Like the difference between 'you statements 'I statements'.
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Jealousy in Relationships: Is it Always UnHealthy?

Relationship Issues: Is Jealousy a Healthy Emotion for Couples?
I've heard many people say that 'a healthy relationship should have no jealousy', or 'modern relationships should be open'. I'm going to debunk this myth right now. Jealousy is healthy emotion and has it's place in relationships.
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Intimate, Sensual, Romantic Gift Baskets for Lovers

DIY Romantic Holiday Gift Basket for Newlyweds and Lovers
My husband and I were married 23 years ago. One special happy was a romantic gift basket we received. You can DIY this gift basket for newlyweds and lovers on your Christmas gift giving list. Perfect for any holiday giving. Note: add body oil for massage and erotic or romantic movie or book.
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Sensual, Romantic Adult Valentine's Day Cards- Free Printable

Don't trust Cupid with Valentine's Day intimacy! Help Cupid get his arrow straight to your beloved's heart with a romantic valentine card. Need some links for free printable romantic valentines? Here are websites with free printable Valentine's Day cards for adults. Sensual, romantic cards and ecards. Click here for links...

Intimate, Romantic Dinner on a Budget

Best Spot for a Romantic Dinner in Any City
A recipe for romance that you can use wherever you are and regardless of your budget! A do-it-yourself romantic dinner with tips to make it your most memorable and sensual date ever!
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Sensual, Romantic Free Printable Cards, E-Cards

Free Romantic and Valentine's E-Cards for Adults
Need a really romantic card to send to Him or Her? Here are websites with free printable cards for adults. Sensual. Intimate. Alluring. Not sleazy.
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Men, Women, Intimacy and Sex

What Men Want, Need and Expect Sexually from Women
Explores men's attitudes about women and sex on an ethical, historical, religious and cultural basis.
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10 Free Romantic, Intimate Dates

10 Free Romantic Date Ideas: Picnics, Museums, Churches, Libraries and More
Do you ever feel that you are too poor to afford to date someone? We live in a commercial world and it often seems that if you "ain't got any money, you ain't got any friends," as the song goes.
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Sensual Games to Play with Your Partner

5 Sensual Games to Play with Your Partner
Spark the romance with these intimate bedroom games
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