My husband has a saying "write it on the ice." If he gives someone something, and they say they owe him, he says this to mean, "forget it." I think that's a good saying for relationships. So my +Relationship-glue-recipe for today is forget it. Let bygones be bygones. I'm not talking about egregious violations of trust (abuse, infidelity, drugs, addiction, cruelty). Those you may chose to forgive, but you cannot and should not forget. But most of our issues are just petty disagreements, quarrels. They happen because we're tired, worried, stressed. They mean precisely nothing overall. So here's how to deal with those. Relationship Glue Recipe: Write it on the Ice
Relationship Communication Tips: Write it on the Ice
My husband has a saying "write it on the ice." If he gives someone something, and they say they owe him, he says this to mean, "forget it." I think that's a good saying for relationships. So my +Relationship-glue-recipe for today is forget it. Let bygones be bygones. I'm not talking about egregious violations of trust (abuse, infidelity, drugs, addiction, cruelty). Those you may chose to forgive, but you cannot and should not forget. But most of our issues are just petty disagreements, quarrels. They happen because we're tired, worried, stressed. They mean precisely nothing overall. So here's how to deal with those. Relationship Glue Recipe: Write it on the Ice
